Taking Time for Mommy
By Rafe Esquith,
Author of Lighting Their Fires: Raising Extraordinary Children in a Mixed-up, Muddled-up, Shook-up World

It’d be nice if there was a secret I could tell you about how to instantly make your kids more successful in school and life. But there is no magic pill, only that old stand-by, hard work. And the funny thing about that is, you can’t force kids to work hard. I suppose you could try, but I’ve rarely seen anything useful come from kids whose parents had to hold their noses to the grindstone. If there’s something close to a secret, perhaps it’s this: Kids work hard when they want to work hard, and this happens only when are motivated to do so by some positive internal goal, and not by fear or because they are worried about disappointing others. They work hard because they value hard work. Instilling kids with values like this is the first step the long road to real success.

But that doesn’t mean there’s nothing you can do to make this happen. Here are five ways to put your kids on the path to extraordinary:

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